The Kendra Standard: Mr. Carrot Dangler VS Mr. Intentional Gent
Why How You Show Up Says Everything About You
One thing I’ve learned in this space is that the way a man moves speaks volumes about his character. There are two types of clients I encounter most often: the intentional gentleman and the carrot dangler.
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Mr. Intentional Gentleman ✨
An intentional man doesn’t just reach out when it’s convenient — he plans, he prioritizes, and he follows through. His time, effort, and thoughtfulness make me feel safe, comfortable, and appreciated. It’s not about perfection; it’s about clarity.
He values my time as much as his own, and that intentionality shows me he knows what he wants and respects what it takes to create a meaningful experience. This type of man stands out because he understands that true connection starts with being consistent and considerate.
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Mr. Carrot Dangler 🚫🥕
On the other hand, there are the ones who dangle carrots — the men who drop vague promises, try to make last-minute plans, or angle for some kind of “deal” on my time.
This approach not only lacks respect, but it also creates uncertainty. This has no place in my world. Carrot dangling feels transactional and careless, and the truth is, those men never actually get to see me.
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Why It Matters 💎
Intentionality is more than just good manners… It’s a reflection of integrity and character. When someone shows up with effort, consistency, and respect, it creates an atmosphere where both people can relax, enjoy, and build trust.
That’s the energy I align with. That’s the energy that gets my best.
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Final Thought:
Gentlemen, if you want to stand out, don’t dangle — be intentional. Because when you value my time and energy, you show me exactly who you are, and that makes all the difference.
Until next time…
With soft glances and kisses,
Kendra
