Etiquette FAQs

  • To inquire, please send a polite and professional message with the following:

    -Your full name

    -Age

    -Occupation

    -Desired date/time and duration

    -A screening option: LinkedIn, work email + work badge, government ID or 2 companion references.

    -A recent selfie

    You may also use the booking form on my website.

    By following through with screening, you understand and agree that I’m being compensated for my time alone. Anything we decide to do during our time together is between two consenting adults.

  • Yes. Screening is a non-negotiable requirement for my safety and peace of mind. All information is handled with the utmost discretion.

  • Yes. A deposit is required to confirm our time together.

    Bookings require a 30% deposit to secure our time while adding value to your curated experience.

    Accepted methods include CashApp or Venmo.

    Cancellations with less than 48 hours’ notice result in a forfeited deposit.

    In the unlikely event that I cancel, I will promptly arrange a refund or reschedule for another day.

    Travel expenses (flight and accommodation) are non-refundable with FMTY/TMTY/DMTY/Extended Travel.

    FMTY/TMTY/DMTY/Extended Travel require a 50% deposit. Please see the section regarding all FAQs for this option.

  • I understand that unexpected things can come up. If you need to cancel with more than 48 hour notice, you’re in the clear — no worries at all.

    However, cancellations made within 24 hours will result in the forfeiture of your deposit.

    Same-day cancellations, a $700 cancellation fee will apply to honor the time and preparation reserved for you.

    If you wish to reschedule after a same-day cancellation, a 50% non-refundable deposit will be required to secure your new date and time.

    Thank you for respecting my time as I respect yours, ensuring our time together remains seamless and intentional.

  • Same-day sessions are rare.

    Advanced booking is always preferred and encouraged.

  • Before our meeting, I will provide a brief, customized experience form for you to complete (applicable to dates of three hours or more). This helps me better understand your preferences and expectations to ensure a memorable time together. For shorter engagements, we will discuss our mutual preferences at the start of the date.

    Please arrive showered, well-groomed, and dressed in clean, appropriate attire. A polished appearance and respectful demeanor are appreciated, and a touch of charm is always welcomed.

    Kindly present any donation discreetly in an unsealed envelope on the nightstand/bathroom sink or gift bag (if we are meeting socially), placing it down without discussing it during our time together. I may need to briefly excuse myself to verify the amount.

    If you wish to bring tokens of appreciation, such as gifts, please consult the Wishlist information and favorites.

  • Be kind, respectful, and a gentleman.

    Follow agreed-upon boundaries.

    No excessive drinking or drug use permitted.

    Let’s enjoy our time with mutual ease and pleasure.

  • Discretion is appreciated and expected on both sides.

    If you enjoyed our time, a thoughtful follow-up message is always welcomed as well as tipping how you see fit :)

    To book again, simply email me respectfully.

  • How do Overnights work?:

    An overnight with me is designed for both indulgence and ease. Our evening begins with an elegant dinner or activity, followed by hours of uninterrupted time together, often until around 1–2 AM. At that point, I rest in my private suite to ensure I’m refreshed for the morning.

    Mornings may include a shared breakfast, coffee, or a sweet send‑off before checkout. Full sleepovers or extended overnight stays (16 to 20 hours) are reserved for established clients with whom I share a deeper level of comfort.

    How does Drive Me to You (DMTY) work?

    DMTY is a concierge‑style experience for those within a 2‑hour driving radius of my base. I arrive to you elegantly and seamlessly, whether at your private residence or a luxury hotel, with travel costs discreetly included in the rate. Our time together begins from the moment I arrive.

    How does Train Me to You (TMTY) work?:

    TMTY is perfect for cities just beyond driving distance, such as Boston, Philadelphia, or Washington, D.C. I travel to you via first‑class rail, with travel time and accommodations included in the rate. Our engagement begins upon my arrival, ensuring a relaxed, unhurried experience.

    How does Fly Me to You (FMTY) work?:

    FMTY allows us to enjoy one another anywhere in the world. Flights and accommodations are included in the rate, ensuring a smooth, all‑inclusive experience. I handle all travel arrangements to arrive prepared for our time together, whether for a decadent dinner date or a multi‑day escape.

    Do you offer extended travel or multi‑day arrangements?:

    Yes, I offer curated experiences ranging from 24 hours to several days. Rates are all‑inclusive of travel and accommodations, with private rest included each evening. For extended travel, I prefer a balanced itinerary—luxurious activities together, moments of intimacy, and opportunities for both of us to recharge.

  • What exactly is a semi-exclusive arrangement?

    A semi-exclusive arrangement is an ongoing connection with me, offering consistency, priority access, and intimacy beyond single dates. It allows us to build something softer, deeper, and more personal while still keeping flexibility.

    How are these different from regular bookings?

    Regular bookings are one-time experiences. Semi-exclusive arrangements are curated monthly packages designed to create a sense of closeness—through consistent dates, private communication, and thoughtful touches in between our time together.

    What’s included in each arrangement?

    Each tier includes a mix of luxury dates, overnights, personalized photos/videos, and private communication. The details are listed under each package, but I also customize based on what feels most natural for us.

    Do I need to commit to a certain number of months?

    I prefer to keep arrangements soft and natural, but most gentlemen choose to continue for 3–6 months or more once they experience the benefits.

    How does priority access work?

    Exclusive arrangement holders have first choice on my calendar, which means easier booking, less wait time, and access to preferred dates.

    Can arrangements be customized?

    Yes. While I’ve created signature packages, I’m open to tailoring something unique for the right gentleman. Think of it as creating “our own rhythm” together.

    How are deposits and discretion handled?

    The same screening and deposit requirements apply, but arrangements are prioritized in my schedule. All communication and details are kept strictly confidential.

    What type of gentleman is best suited for this?

    Someone who values consistency, generosity, and connection. These arrangements are ideal for men who enjoy being a priority in my world while also prioritizing me in theirs.