FAQs
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I expect our time together to feel intentional — an experience, not an appointment.
Please arrive on time, freshly showered, and free from distractions so we can enjoy the full rhythm of our time.
Respect, generosity, and presence are always appreciated. When those qualities are met, I promise to give you an experience that feels effortless, refined, and deeply personal.
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My minimum engagement is three hours. This allows enough time to settle in, connect naturally, and enjoy the experience without feeling rushed.
That said, my signature experiences begin at four hours, where the evening has space to breathe and everything flows effortlessly.
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For my safety and discretion, I require light screening prior to confirming any engagement. This typically includes a form of ID verification.
I value privacy deeply — both yours and mine — and all information is handled respectfully and confidentially.
I do not offer alternatives that bypass screening. Please see my FAQs regarding this below.
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Yes. A deposit is required to confirm our time together.
Bookings require a 30% deposit to secure our time while adding value to your curated experience.
Accepted methods include CashApp or Venmo. I also accept discreet options through Visa Giftcard which I’ll provide to you.
Cancellations with less than 48 hours’ notice result in a forfeited deposit.
In the unlikely event that I cancel, I will promptly arrange a refund or reschedule for another day.
Travel expenses (flight and accommodation) are non-refundable with FMTY/TMTY/DMTY/Extended Travel.
FMTY/TMTY/DMTY/Extended Travel require a 50% deposit. Please see the section regarding all FAQs for this option.
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To inquire, please send a polite and professional message with the following:
-Your full name
-Age
-Occupation
-Desired date/time and duration
-A screening option: LinkedIn or Work Email
-Clear copy of your photo ID
-A recent selfie with photo ID
You may also use the booking form on my website.
By following through with screening, you understand and agree that I’m being compensated for my time alone. Anything we decide to do during our time together is between two consenting adults.
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I understand that unexpected things can come up. If you need to cancel with more than 48 hour notice, you’re in the clear — no worries at all.
However, cancellations made within 48 hours will result in the forfeiture of your deposit.
Same-day cancellations, a $700 cancellation fee will apply to honor the time and preparation reserved for you.
If you wish to reschedule after a same-day cancellation, a 50% non-refundable deposit will be required to secure your new date and time.
Thank you for respecting my time as I respect yours, ensuring our time together remains seamless and intentional.
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Same day requests are rare.
Each engagement is intentionally planned to ensure a relaxed pace, proper screening, and a thoughtfully prepared atmosphere.
I kindly ask for at least 24 hours’ notice when booking.
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Cleanliness is not only a turn on but definitely important to me!
Please arrive showered, well-groomed, and dressed in clean, appropriate attire. A polished appearance and respectful demeanor are appreciated, and a touch of charm is always welcomed.
Kindly present any donation discreetly in an unsealed envelope on the nightstand/bathroom sink or gift bag/book/etc (if we are meeting socially), placing it down without discussing it during our time together. I may need to briefly excuse myself to verify the amount.
If you wish to bring tokens of appreciation, such as gifts, please consult my Wishlist information and favorites.
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Discretion is always appreciated and expected on both sides.
If you enjoyed our time, a thoughtful follow-up message is always welcome. I value genuine connection and courtesy, especially when it’s expressed with care and intention.
When you’d like to spend time together again, simply reach out respectfully to plan our next encounter. I prefer to keep our connection grounded in shared experiences rather than constant communication.
For those who enjoy staying connected between visits, I do offer curated virtual arrangements and extended experiences designed to feel natural, reciprocal, and aligned with the energy we’ve established. Details are shared privately, as each dynamic is unique.
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What exactly is a semi-exclusive arrangement?
A semi-exclusive arrangement is an ongoing connection with me, offering consistency, priority access, and intimacy beyond single dates. It allows us to build something softer, deeper, and more personal while still keeping flexibility.
How are these different from regular bookings?
Regular bookings are less consistent experiences. Semi-exclusive arrangements are designed to create a sense of closeness—through consistent dates, private communication, and thoughtful touches in between our time together.
What’s included in our arrangement?
It will be specifically curated to include a mix of luxury dates, overnights, personalized photos/videos, and private communication.
How does priority access work?
Exclusive arrangement holders have first choice on my calendar, which means easier booking, less wait time, and access to preferred dates.
Can arrangements be customized?
Yes. I’m open to tailoring something unique for the right gentleman. Think of it as creating “our own rhythm” together.
How are deposits and discretion handled?
The same screening and deposit requirements apply, but arrangements are prioritized in my schedule. All communication and details are kept strictly confidential.
What type of gentleman is best suited for this?
Someone who values consistency, generosity, and connection. Arrangements are ideal for men who enjoy being a priority in my world while also prioritizing me in theirs.
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How do Overnights work?:
An overnight with me is designed for both indulgence and ease. Our evening begins with an elegant dinner or activity, followed by hours of uninterrupted time together, often until around 1 AM. I do ask for 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep.
Mornings may include a shared breakfast, coffee, with a sweet send‑off before checkout. Extended overnight stays (16 to 20 hours) are reserved for established clients with whom I share a deeper level of comfort.
How does Drive Me to You (DMTY) work?
DMTY is a concierge‑style experience for those within a 2‑hour driving radius of my base. I arrive to you elegantly and seamlessly, whether at your private residence or a luxury hotel. Our time together begins from the moment I arrive.
How does Train Me to You (TMTY) work?:
TMTY is perfect for cities just beyond driving distance, such as Boston, New York City, or Washington, D.C. I travel to you via first‑class rail. Our engagement begins upon my arrival, ensuring a relaxed, unhurried experience.
How does Fly Me to You (FMTY) work?:
FMTY allows us to enjoy one another anywhere in the world. I handle all travel arrangements to arrive prepared for our time together, whether for a decadent dinner date or a multi‑day escape.
Do you offer extended travel or multi‑day arrangements?:
Yes, I offer curated experiences ranging from 24 hours to several days. Travel and accommodation are to be provided separately. Private rest is included each evening. For extended travel, I prefer a balanced itinerary—luxurious activities together, moments of intimacy, and opportunities for both of us to recharge.
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Why does a suite preparation fee apply to 3-hour engagements?
To ensure every experience reflects the same level of comfort, ambiance, and discretion, additional preparation is sometimes required for shorter engagements.
Extended encounters (four hours or more) allow ample time to curate the space naturally and include this preparation as part of the experience. For 3-hour engagements, this preparation may be arranged separately depending on availability and logistics.
My intention is always to provide a seamless, unrushed experience — regardless of duration.
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Is the suite preparation fee charged for all bookings?
No.
Suite preparation is included with engagements of four hours or longer.
For my minimum three-hour engagements, the fee may apply when additional setup is needed to maintain the standard of care I’m known for.
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Can the fee be waived?
The suite preparation fee reflects time, privacy, and intentional setup. It is not negotiable.
Guests who prefer a fully inclusive experience are encouraged to select one of my extended offerings, where all preparations are seamlessly included.
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Why don’t you offer shorter appointments without preparation?
I value presence, comfort, and privacy — for both of us.
Rather than rush or compromise the experience, I choose to keep my offerings aligned with the level of care and discretion my guests expect. This ensures our time together feels relaxed, refined, and well-considered.
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Can we meet without providing ID first?
No. Screening is a requirement, not a suggestion.
If you’re seeking a more casual or spontaneous arrangement, I may not be the right fit — and I respect that different preferences exist.
Do you offer social or public meet-and-greets?
I do not offer unscreened public meet-and-greets.
Any engagement — whether social or private — requires screening in advance. This ensures comfort, safety, and alignment for both of us.
I find that thoughtful planning creates a much better experience for everyone involved.
